I have watched your arguments and will not "go there" with you.
Yes, our female counterparts have more treacherous weapons with which to abuse. Where they lack in muscle they are often more than able to make up for in other ways. For instance the law tends to give them far more liberty and is quick to assume they are innocent and the man guilty. Women often use this and hold it over the man's head. For instance the huband may have a perfectly clean record yet all the wife has to say is that he is violent and a court order is given restricting the man from his own home.